The Distance Between Good People

A structured guide to understanding how good intentions, hidden arguments, missed impact, and repeated defensive patterns create distance—and what safe, accountable trust repair requires.

Inside this book

• Understand why good intentions do not prevent harm
• Find the argument beneath the argument
• Separate impact, intention, explanation, and accountability
• Use boundaries without turning them into punishment
• Repair manageable harm through clear action
• Recognise when distance remains the safer choice